2010年9月18日星期六

说“不”的艺术


下午,走进游泳池更衣室的那一刻,有个青年的眼神一直紧盯着我。由于只想好好地游泳,对他也就不瞅不睬。就不知我是否散发着某种魅力,由于当时更衣室没人,我越不睬他,他就越要亲近我,甚至于要摸我的身体。

对于他的举动,我唯有避开他,再使个不友善的眼神。还好,他还识趣,不再有任何举动。曾经,也有遇到一些不识好歹的,已经尝试避开他们,可是他们却越变本加厉,想要做进一步的行动,又或者,可能我的眼神是诱惑型的吧!

你是否在生活中遇到过这样的事--想拒绝别人,但又不好意思说?或者是上述的情况,你是否会开口大骂,还是友善的拒绝呢?

7 条评论:

  1. Wow...hottie is so attractive. It's easy to decline stranger's weird request...for me a simple 'no, i m not your type' or 'no, I m not gay' suffice...don't scold ppl lah...

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  2. Behind the unwanted harressment,it's also a kind of validation that you are attractive, :) So, just nicely make a step back and say no to him firmly.

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  3. haha.. maybe that guy so desperate and will go for anyone he saw... :p

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  4. hahaha.. last time, when i was still flinging, i will tend to go for size, im a size person, but the thing is the looks too still matters somehow, it must be decent, if you have a fucking awesome dick but your face is horrible, sorry i cant take it.. there are lots of encounters that i had in the gym shower area before, but usually i just give them the cock stare and they will just back off.. hahahaha.. it differs with people i guess.. my case cos all they want is sex so i wont feel bad to reject them, so yeah.. haha..

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  5. ya, tuls, if the guy is hot and want go after you, sure you felt hard to reject rite? LOL

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  6. I look very serious and unfrenly in the gym...so never had such encounter b4

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  7. haha.. should learn from you, Darren.

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