2010年10月6日星期三

裸体的省思




自认自己是内向的人,做人处事总有一丝保留。对于全裸,也是如此。

那天,与友人来到一个小镇的游泳池。眼观四面八方,周遭的人,没有一个真正的穿着泳衣和泳裤。大部分的人都穿着上衣或短裤。我和友人两眼对望,有点犹豫,有点害羞,不知道要不要穿泳裤下水。

另外,在游泳池的洗澡间,有的人不介意别人的眼光,全裸冲凉;有的人穿着泳裤冲凉;有者甚至关着门洗刷一番。虽然说,大家是男人,该有的都有,而本身虽是同志,可还是羞于在众人面前裸露。

是他们太大方呢?还是人际文化的不同?



在日本、台湾或韩国的桑拿或公共洗澡间,大家都坦诚相露,一点都不当一回事。可是,如果有一天,自己身在其中,是否能够大方的裸露,徘徊在众人面前呢?万一,自己看到某位俊男的大吊,下体不由自主地膨胀,岂不是更加尴尬?

来临的台北之旅,将会去那泡温泉,听说是要一丝不挂的。哈哈,自己是否有那种胆量呢?还是临时退缩?  自己是否要在那日子的到来,勇敢地在公共游泳池的洗澡间,全裸洗澡,不理众人的目光呢?哈哈,真的有点不知所措!

既然,大家都是男儿身,我为什么还是有所保留呢?是我对我那话儿爱护有加,自私得不愿与人分享呢?还是受到中华五千年的历史文化熏陶,在众人面前裸露是羞耻的行为呢?







6 条评论:

  1. practices make perfect!
    多多“练习”就习以为常了...
    哈哈~~!!

    回复删除
  2. 我也不敢在大众裸露,就算穿着内裤也不行。

    回复删除
  3. In fact I find the locals are too conservative and shy...in other countries, this is normal. I can walk nakedly in the SPA sauna and indeed I have done it many times when I was in TW and PRC...but if we are going w/ colleagues, then it will be a bit uneasy. I managed to overcome it during my last trip to PRC, a group of business partners + colleague (straight ones) in the sauna..I felt proud of my physique..compare w/ those straights.

    @Lego: Since you have 6-packs now, it will be a waste if no one appreciate it...hahaha! Good thing must be shared.

    回复删除
  4. enjoying reading your blog :)

    回复删除
  5. I used to feel shy to take off my shirt in the changing room but not now. In my case, it is because of lack of confidence. After having some results from regular gym workout, I have got used to it but I still wear underwear before I leave the shower room.

    回复删除
  6. X|aoHanG_相翰 ~ 不敢脱完,又怎么练习呢?哈哈

    Legolas ~ 穿着泳裤对我来说是没问题的,但是要在陌生人面前露阳具,那可就有问题了。

    Skyhawk ~ My coming Taipei trip will go with my colleague, hope I can managed it just like you did. But, still Shy! Shy! :p

    Ndr3W ~ Thanks for reading!

    Darren ~ I'm not shy if I still got the piece of clothes cover my dick, the problem is totally off in front of public. I still feel shy when think about it.

    回复删除